How many ways can you play the "blame the victim game"?
Pull up a chair.
One popular method is to tell women over and over again that they are not safe on the streets and that if they do get attacked or raped, it was their fault for being out on their own. Have to work late? Need some milk for the morning? Want to meet friends? Want to have a social life? Too bad. If you leave the house without a suitable chaperone, you're just asking for it, sister.
Well now the Police Service of Northern Ireland is telling women not to go out alone at night, just like every other law enforcement branch does after a spate of attacks on women. Such guidelines place all the responsibility for rape upon women rather than the criminal.
A 17 year-old woman was raped in the Lower Shankill last Monday by a stranger as she was walking down the street at 10:30 p.m. 10:30? WTF? That's not even Cinderella's curfew for fuck's sake. Now we have to stay indoors after dark?
Last month, a woman in her 20s was also raped by a stranger as she walked at night. Although the Belfast Telegraph surmises that the assaults may be linked, the PSNI is not investigating a connection between the two rapes. Because women's safety fails to rank as a priority.
Eileen Calder of the Rape Crisis Centre remarked that "it's an absolute disgrace that women are not safe on the streets of Belfast. Even at that time of night, women should have the right to walk around without fear of attack." Her sage observation does not register with the PSNI or even with popular opinion.
Women on the streets, whether alone or in groups, are perennial targets for men's violence. Rape is the only crime where we make the victim complicit in the act. Instead of blaming the victim, why not try a collective response to violence against women? How about posting flyers that tells the rapists to stay off the streets? Something like:
The People of the Shankill Warn all Rapists that you are Not Safe on Our Streets.
We Will Not Tolerate Attacks on Women and Will Respond Quickly to Protect Them and Cut Your Balls Off in the Process.
Rapists Beware!
How hard is that? Send a fucking message that no man or woman in the community will stand by and allow women's basic human right to walk the streets unmolested to be questioned. Hold self defense courses that enable women to fight off attackers and defend themselves.
Oh, that's right. It's just easier to shift the burden upon women's independence and right to bodily sovereignty. And then blame the victim. Again.
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How right you are, Medbh. Why the hell should ALL women have to stay off the streets at a perfectly normal hour just because a few demented men fancy knocking them up? Are men warned to stay off the streets because some drunken lout might bottle them outside a pub? I think not. Your flyer's wonderful, if only someone had the nerve to post it up around Belfast. The only answer is for the whole community to make it clear rape is unacceptable under any circumstances and all rapists will be identified, reported and ostracised. But as usual the turn-a-blind-eye brigade seems to prevail. Sickening.
It drives me nuts, Nick. Why are women punished and told to stay inside after dark while the rapist walks around without consequence?
It's blame the women all the time.
That would be the Rape Crisis Centre that had all government funding cut and is relying solely on donations to stay afloat! Beggars Belief!
My bosses bought rape/attack alarms for all the staff, that's ALL the staff btw. Which I think is good. Bu then again it is a cheaper substitute for paying for our taxis home ....but still it's a good start
Manuel, I've never had an employer pay for either a rape alarm or even a taxi. It's so nice to hear that your resto at least does something to help keep women safe. It's shocking to think how even the simplest precautions are overlooked. Rape is such the norm for women about after dark. Everyone blames the victim.
I understand what you're saying Medbh, but all they are doing is asking women to be more vigilant and perhaps travel with a friend.
I know they could be doing more, but the shankill isnt the safest area for either males or females walking alone. If there was a spate of attacks on men, the police would request that fellas try to travel in pairs etc.
Also Nick, there is an on-going campaign in Belfast to 'just walk away' aimed at fellas to be more vigilant about volitile situations.
Sheepy, to every police department in the world rape is business as usual. Telling women not to go out alone is not an adequate response. It only punishes women and lets rapists roam the streets at will.
Didn't know about the Just Walk Away campaign, SW. Sounds good. I guess that's a big factor, men with a short fuse who just explode rather than calming down and behaving sensibly.
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